Lack of romance....what to do?

thats sooo sad. there is nothing you can do to fall in love. love is love. nothing is greater than it. i don't understand when people say fall in love as if that is suppose to be greater than love it self. smh people with their own definitions. however, the best thing you can do is talk with him....choose the best time to talk perhaps lighten the mood by cooking his fav over candlelight and get to know one another and see how that goes.