I am in love, with a woman who is 22 years older than me?

I am emotionally unstable. to make this short I am 22 and am in love with my moms life long friend who is 45. When I was a baby she would help my mother raise me, because my alcoholic father divorced my mother before I was born. She needed help. So her friend in short was always their for me when my mom was at work. I have fond memories at age 5. She should carry me on her back and we would go for walks in the park, eat ice cream on the park swing set together, We would go home and play hide and seek. Watch Barney together. I remembering her just making me happy. Now you might be saying she acted like my mother. My mother was attentive. But this woman was with me for short periods of time. In grade school she was still there for me. She was their for advice and inspired me to get good grades and stay healthy. Basically in childhood, it was a crush.That crush turned into raw love in my senior year. She was still looking beautiful at age 41. Many of you probably wouldn't but I did. Her eyes, hair, complexion and just her all over. I couldn't stop thinking about her. My mom was disappointed that I never went to prom. I wanted to take my love to the prom, but I would have been laughed at for taking a "fossil" out. I felt terrible, I wanted to say to her"Can you be my prom date" I couldn't follow through. In college it only got stronger. I would dream of her and fantasize about her with me. She today is still friends with my mom and we see each other everyday. I can tell its love because when im around her I got that feeling. I get warm, hard and in my head I feel soft. I feel a bond between us. She I think is onto me. For the past 5 months we have been seeing movies a lot and socializing more than ever, and we are always alone. She even told me if I was interested in any girl recently, she even seems alone since her husband left her 5 years ago. You people can make diaper jokes or old bag jokes all you want. But I am in real love, I never felt this way in my life. I want to tell her about my intimate love for her, but I am nervous and don't know what to do

War is not about body count. It is about who can break whose will first. True or false?

Just in my personal opinion, would say that my answer would be "true". For example, General Westmoreland believed in the Vietnam War that the best way to measure success was to kill as many of the enemy fighters as possible. Therefore, he believed that an extremely large amount of bombings by air would kill so many enemy fighters that the enemy Generals would come to the negotiating table sooner or later. And although the enemy did come to the negotiating table a few times near the end of the war after numerous bombings of Hanoi, the enemy's still carried on and their will wasn't broken. In other words, even though the NVA and VC lost a total of about 900,000 fighters compared to the U.S. losses of around 58,000 troops, their will was stronger than the will of the U.S. Would you say my assessment is accurate? And if so, do you see a similar pattern in Afghanistan?

My ex invites me on a date.....with his girlfriend? And she doesn't know about us going out???HELP?

first of all how can you be very close to a guy who according to you cheated and lied and disrespected you? you also say you are gay, so i am a little confused, maybe you are too, however, i feel this guy is basically a dishonest person and i feel he is using you to play games with or to try to make his now GF jealous, i also think that someone should tell his GF that he is bi sexual, with all the inherent risks to her health, even if he practises safe sex, i found out my ex husband is gay after many years of marriage and 3 children, which left us all devastated at the time, if he is so sure of his sexuality then why hide it. I definatley think his GF has a right to know, if you do decide to go with them you could always drop it casually into the conversation , say something like didnt we have a good time when we went to such and such, or if your brave enough ask him in front of her ifn her has checked out the lastest gay club or whatever, if she doesn't get the message then god help her?,, but seriously i would cut this guy out of your life for good, dont answer any texts or calls and tell him to stp discusssing your past relationship with everyone, he is too dishonest for my liking and i do feel his GF should know what he is like before she gets in too deep at least if she knows and stay with him then at least she has an informed choice and is not totally ignorant about his past hope this helps you

Are some people born to be loners?

My parents tell me that I was always a loner. I never really had any friends or my friendships never lasted long. Whenever my friends didn't want to play with me when I was younger, I was always able to find something to do alone. I am an older teen now and I have no friends at all but I'm okay with that. It upsets my parents a lot that I'm a loner and I wish they would leave me alone a lot of times. I'm mostly reading, writing or listening to music and all of these are activities that a person does alone. I wouldn't mind if I never have a friend, relationship or a better relationship with my parents because I have learned how to take care of myself. Anyone else a loner or have parents who give them a hard time about it?

Which language to learn for facebook games...?

I already know a lot of turbo c++ and all the oo concepts.Now i'm thinking of learning vc++ or c# .My aim is to first create a small simple 2d game like maybe something like that copter game(which is written in flash).I'd also eventually like to try my hand at creating some facebook game or app.Would i be do that with c++ or would it be better if i try to learn flash.Would it be more difficult to with c++/#.I understand most of these browser based games are made mostly in flash.But i figure it'd be more easier and useful to know vc++/c#.So what do you guys suggest i learn..?Thanks.

Does this Girl like me or not or could she eventually fall for me? Also how can i hint to her that i like her?

I've known her since second grade and i am now a senior at high school. I was not very good friends with her until this year and i really like her now. She calls me everyday, she always wants to go on oovoo with me on the computer, and thinks im realy funny. She also just recently broke up with her boyfriend and keeps telling me everyday that she is single. But she says she likes another guy already. She does flirt with me too and does tell me that im cute. How can i tell her that i like her without ruining our friendship or just hint it to her becasuse i have told her i dont like her like that but i really do like her. Help me

How do you end a marriage after 10 years?

I am truly unhappy in my marriage. There is nothing left. No friendship, nothing. We don't talk, we don't sleep in the same room. We have no kids. We just have memories of what we used to have and the hopes that it will change. We have tried and tried, but it never changes. I just hate the idea of the transition of him leaving. I owned the house before we got married, so it's mine. Everything in it, I bought. We have kept everything separate in out finances, always. So now he walks away with nothing. I also feel bad for him for that reason. I am 33 now and really just want to meet someone who I can spend my life with. How do you finally make it over for good?